Potential : Do you have?

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When you sit in a driver's seat you know that you're gonna learn driving,there's not a question in your mind or can say doubt in your mind that you're not going to learn how to drive,just because and you know your potential and it takes time.Choosing a career is not that easy for you,just because you are unaware of your potential and is of much more importance for a youngster or anyone else looking for a bright future."Uncertainty is something that makes future a little exciting."  you can make this uncertainty your tool or you can just make it your reason for having difficulty."Choosing is one of the hardest works to do." and when it comes to choose for your life it'll make you think hard and right.Choosing 'your' career is definitely done by you but you can take some worthy tips or suggestion by the following steps.It'll definitely make you feel stronger when making one of most important decision of your Life.

Know Your Potential --   Knowing what you can do gives you confidence.It's your life,every important decision,every important step in your life will need confidence,so that's the point.Having that confidence in yourself makes your life worthy and easier.You must know in what kind of field you can work efficiently.Just like that car driving example,you can do it with no difficulty if you know that you can."Work is said to be a work,when it can be accomplished." so u must know if you can do it or not. That will make you think more efficiently.
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Look For The Guidance --  It's no doubt your decision,you've got to take it at your own.But certainly  there are a lot of people in the practical field who have that vast knowledge and experience that can definitely lighten-up any dark space in your mind.So definitely don't hesitate in taking advices , guidance and suggestions. You can look for guidance in your own family,relations friends  or on the internet and so. Guidance can definitely make you feel a bit more strong and confident when taking decision and you can think of your right and wrong more efficiently.
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Search what makes you 'You' -- "It definitely matters,what you love the most!"  or you are going to take a decision that's related to your future and you are gonna be doing it at the end of your search for career as your job of-course.That's why it's of much more importance that whatever you choose must be of your interest.Because what makes you feel good,you'll definitely do that more efficiently. You should search for that particular choice of yours that feels you good.Whether it's science,art,computers politics.environment and nature,languages,philosophy,biotechnology or mediscience whatever it's your interest.When you got that,you have achieved your half way pf choosing your career.Just because you know yourself better than anyone.
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Look For The Scope --Yeah,you've got your interest,look for it's scope.The subject you have chosen as your interest,may be because you have some prior knowledge about that field or it's your field of interest or any other reason.In practical world where it's too competitive to stand with the world,you must know how you're gonna break it through.The subject of interest is called of interest if you feel better doing it,so it'll be easy for you looking for it's scope once you've finished with what makes u feel good.
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How You Want To See Yourself As --You must know it how you want to see yourself as a person,as a professional,as an officer or as a family member. Making sure of what you want to see yourself as and how your character will be or you want it to be makes you more confident about choosing right career.
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Self Motivation -- Just like we bath everyday,same we need to get motivated time to time to make sure that we're gonna do our best,give our best in whatever we will do. Always try to get motivated and keep looking for Opportunities. "Life will give you points,you'll have to make it your turning points."



    Choosing the best career for you does not need taking steps sequentially,but need to take those steps in a right manner and at a right time.
    Always be aware of what you are doing,don't just get carried away.
    Take guidance and suggestions but do what your mind says and what you think will make you through.
    Believe in yourself.
    Uncertainty,a tool to handle future,use it as your power tool.

    Choosing a perfect career is not easy,always get ready for crashes.
    Take risk in your life but calculated.
    Your second warning goes here. Add as many warning bullets as you need.** Wish  you luck **
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P l a n 's' T o S u c c e s s..

Plans Not working? :Why?   If there's even a plan exist?? 
  I was watching the match last night but only physically present there... And was  dreaming of things or rather say my "Life".That's not a big deal I am used to  it,because that's what I do with ease...Then in a commercial I was suddenly back to my leisure of watching TV..
 "Failing to Plan is Planning to Fail !!"  My mind  felt it's presence for the first  time  during  that commercial. That line has made me think about "What's really going on with my life !!".By the  time I was able and have started to think about 'me',I have always been busy  doing so.I have wanted a future nice enough and had made my Plans, too many  Plans..Pfff..........  
    Yeah that usually happens,we make plans,pretend to be determined  about  them 'this time',  but few week passes and find ourselves looking for  another plan,this time more determined. But "Things never happen as we want  them to, but they can happen if we make them happen as we like."
  "Our Plans didn't work:why! Try and search if there's even a plan exist!!"      Most of the times our thinking is like  " We are going to achieve this,do that .."  that's it, OUr plans! Where's the answer for "How"??  "A plan is something which  answer for  the 'How'."  Your plan is something which describes 'the Right  Approach' to your aim.
 Then come the reasons to fail! Why don't we  find ourselves unable to get our  things done? The  major reason for our failure is to not have a right approach .
1.LAck of Concentration (Absence of mind)
2.LAck of Regularity
3.LAck of Commitment
4.LAck of Determination
Why "A person having concentration,regularity,commitment and determination  can never lose."?
Lack of presence in what we do is something like an obstraction between our eyes  and the thing we want to see.   "I have experienced the lack of presence in every- single thing been left incompleted.
"Must DO a bit of it Today"- Remember this and implement everyday!!  That's  regularity,The most powerful tool in every-single job done or rather say Tool FOr  Success.
"Make that happen" is the soul of commitment.It's like transforming your words to  work in something that exist in practical world.
From the invoking of the idea to get the job done,what's needed to be with a  person is his Determination. Have it ,the determination, with yourself all the time  except when you're sleeping.  :)     &  Remember "The path to success is like two nearby points of a circle,standing at  a point in life,some people get the success point quickly,some people have to walk a  lot,some waste their life deciding 'which path to take'."  .... :)

Who the hell Knows...!

When we were five, they asked us what we
wanted to be when we grew up. Our things were
answers like astronaut, president, or in my case,
princess… When we were ten, they asked us
again. We answered - rock star, cowboy, or in my
case, gold medalist… But now that we’ve grown
up, they want a more serious answer. Well, how
about this… Who the hell knows? This isn’t a time
to make hard and fast decisions. This is the time to
make mistakes. Take the wrong train and get
stuck somewhere chill. Fall in love - a lot. Major in
philosophy because there’s no way to make a
career out of that. Change your mind. Then change
it again because nothing is permanent. So make as
many mistakes as you can. That way, someday,
when they ask again what we want to be… We
won’t have to guess. We’ll know.”

Is it hard or is it impossible to get over it : Guilt.

Yes, I am also one of you who has felt the feeling. Some feeling that we feel after the scene. "May be I should't do this or that". Days, months and years pass but that feeling remains. Are you too weak to overcome it or still are living in those days that are passed.

             Is it hard or impossible to overcome our guilt?

Most of the times you know it very well that it wouldn't make any sense as the things that do not affect your life now should be dumped. Why are you still looking for the answers? Why are you still looking back with tears in your eyes? Why do you still have the guilt in your mind? Really is it too hard or impossible to overcome it? Or is it a matter of fact for different people with different views? People no matter where they belong, have different tendencies towards their life, but they have something common that is their heart. They think that they should move on in their life but their heart bounds them from doing it.

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